One of the problems with initiating any conversation with the WAS is that the LBS has expectations.
Crimson, a lot of any of the decisions that you have made appear to have continued to be in an effort to save your M. A lot of conversations you have with her appear as though you feel you can change her mind with words, or some physical gestures which suggest that you are interested in or committed to her.
What we find is, until the WAS is wanting to R... they ARE NOT... and until they tell the WAS that they ARE... there is nothing the LBS can do... IF your W is willing and ready to R, then she will let you know in a way that you will know... generally with words that are similar to "I would like to work on our R and this is how I would like to do it".
The LBS words can be misinterpreted by and twisted by the WAS... this is witnessed time and time again...
ACTIONS will be very clear to the WAS. No words are necessary. Unless they ask about the actions.
