That is what I want you to see. Stop being the victim and grab your own life
Pulp...
A friend asked me to stop by...
I want you to read what Grit posted to you above...
What does THAT mean to you ?
How are you doing that ????
I saw a few weeks back, where you said that you were going to redo your goals....
What did you come up with ?
I dunno Pulp....
I see you wanting to take the right steps, yet are still looking back over your shoulder to see if she is watching you or not ???
That you are still looking toward her, to define what your future should be.
And that you are waiting for her, to make some major decision, so that you can get on with YOUR life.
See a pattern there ? ^^^^
YOU have a say in how your life looks moving forward.
What happens when she moves ????
How is anything going to be any different for you then ?
Other than you can sit back and say..." well, she left me"
The choices you make today, affect what tomorrow brings.
Nobody said that she can't be in her future. But you have to work toward your future. So that you can have one to offer in return. And who knows, one day, your futures may join together once again.