Have you looked at this gals website and extensive blogging? I've been reading a few a day. Very helpful for me, she has a funny way of oputting things, but helping me see the reality of my situation. www.baggagereclaim.co.uk
When you talk about your H it is a lot like my relationship was.
I hope your MRI goes well.
Aloha,
Wendy
Me 57 XH 58 Sons age 32 & 27 M:32 D final 9/12 Bought 10 Acres and Living the Dream!