Read Divorce Remedy. Go to the LRT tactic. Read the Five Love Languages (Chapman). Read the New Rules Of Marriage (Real). Read How To Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About IT (Love/Stosny). If you can afford it, get telephone coaching.
I echo both respones, BACK OFF. WAY OFF. If you are texting or e-mailing for the sake of the kids, that is all you should include. Be correct, but less is more here.
Above all, know that this will get better. Everyone says so because it is true. I am also about 10 months into a very similar situation with a WAW and the only thing you can do is work on being a person only a fool would leave. There is hope.
M 53, W 48 T 25, M 18 S 15, D 11 "I'me done!" 6/13/2010 Exit started 8/21/2011 ILYBNILWY W consults with L 9/2011, no papers filed Separated 1/16/2012