Cadet, if I could have heard that advice and really taken it to heart 10 months ago, I would be living in a much different world.

Welcome, R33. Cadet is right. If you want to DO something, give her space. Read some other people's threads. Tell us what is going on in your situation.

Another thing you can DO is start reading some books. And anything to GAL.

- All for the kids -
Me:34, W:35
M:7, T:13
S6, D3 + my D15 from previous marriage
July 2011 "I think I need a separation"
W filed D September
Currently living apart - she has the house, I rent a room