Retrouvaille Bound!!! (time for a new thread! )

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Hey J- Appreciate you keeping us posted and its nice to see a sitch working towards R, it gives many of us hope.

Where and what are your current expectations at with your w?

I am really just taking it day by day now. I have to say I expect us to fully reconcile. It's been almost 6 months since bomb and our R is much better than its been in years--minus sex. I think really the only thing that would derail us is me at this point.

I say that in that I need and crave intimacy that she cannot give me at this point yet (sex). I understand and think she will down the road (she's told me she will and please be patient) and is making headway, but I'm impatient and how long can/will I wait for her there? i don't really have a timeline on it, just ask myself about it often. I pray on this for strength so I think I can make it. I avoid situations alone with women right now and will not get close to one because I know I am weak here at this point. I've never cheated on a woman, but I know enough that anyone could and i'm weak now due to all of this.

Basically I'm just trying to be patient and rebuild intimacy in all other areas with her at this time, hoping it won't be too long till we have sex again.