Retrouvaille Bound!!! (time for a new thread! )

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Dialogue has been going well this week. Talking about R in non-confrontational ways is key. W in non-confrontational by nature, so I make headway there.

She seeks a peaceful home, and I have been at peace with myself the last month, so that is going smoother. Last night we talked about Trust, and how I was blown away as I had always trusted her unconditionally until the last 6 months. She really has a kind nature, but I think got so "checked out" that she lost herself in the EA fog. We haven't talked about it lately, but I think she really regrets what she did, knows it's wrong, and is trying to right it. I think me constantly beating it over her head further drove her away the 1st 4 months after bomb.

So, I have to forgive and let it go. I have, but it's the not forgetting part that's hard. It gets better over time, but after losing trust, there's still that doubt at times. It does get better.