If you go to some of my old threads in the archives, you will find my email address. If you both send me an email, I will then forward your emails on to each of you. Unfortunately, with the way the board is set up now, we can't provide this information to each other now in our postings.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.