Not sure where to start, Part 3

[wishing, hoping]

So S had an eye appointment tonight and he needs glasses. Not surprised. I expected as much. He is excited about it. We get home and H is at the house. Evan rushes in to tell his dad and H is in a crabby mood. S tells D not to go downstairs because H is "working". So I warmed up pizza for the kids and after eating D wants to see her daddy. S tells her no and won't let her go. She screams and cries while H tells S to just let her come down. S is screwing around and being goofy and starts teasing his sister. H goes off on S! S runs upstairs crying and I grab him and hold him. He is sobbing. I know it is more than being yelled at. I hold him and once he calms down I tell him to take the dog for a walk and cool down. He gets back and goes to his room and goes to bed.

I could just strangle H when I see S so upset. And H just acts like everything is just fine. He is being such a selfish @$$. It makes me ill.

I am talking to S tomorrow and get to the bottom of this. I am also calling a counselor tomorrow for him. This is getting ridiculous.