OMW - wow. A lot has happened with you, huh? I don't know if your farewell was permanent, but a hello and best wishes from me, if you are still reading posts.
I'm still married, but we are living apart. Nearly 2 years since he started affair and 1.5 since I found out/he moved out. An atty I recently saw said people who come in either want to be divorce asap or they have no real desire to/take years to get around to it. I guess you are the former and I am the latter.
I am glad you have decided not to have a difficult contested divorce, but you still have a long road in front of you. Keep us updated, when you think of it. Good luck.
Faith is, at one and the same time, absolutely necessary and altogether impossible. --Stanislaw Lem
