My first comment is BRAVO! It's an inspiration to see someone having success such as yours. It also makes me feel better that you are having success and implementing methods suggested by a DB coach that go against again the grain of "doing things by the book". The fact that you are still residing with your H is a Godsend, although I know it is hard if there is OP involved, you are doing much better than I could in that situation. I wish I could have got things under control before us physically separating, that makes things very hard...
In short, great job and keep doing what you're doing as it seems to be working. I like the written list of goals I think I'm going to have to steal that one. Keep on keeping on!!!
me 38 W 30 T 3 M in 05/2010 Separated 08/2011 Stephchildren (all hers) SS17, SS12, SD8 I filed 8/27, she countered I filed response 9/5 Anxiously waiting on the judge!
