Hey totallydevoted,

First and foremost congratulations on the weight loss man! I am trying to get back on that train myself, a great thing for the WAW's of the world to take notice of for sure...

I will say I have done the same thing with prior "good times" correspondence. I received no response and also the response to "please don't send me these things they just push me further away". Subconsciously I still think that type of thing has to make them think... The book and 37rules don't recommend it, but I live by the fact there are exceptions to every rule.

Keep your chin up and good luck with your sitch!


me 38
W 30
T 3
M in 05/2010
Separated 08/2011
Stephchildren (all hers) SS17, SS12, SD8
I filed 8/27, she countered I filed response 9/5
Anxiously waiting on the judge!