4th and long, goal to go, touchdown required

[Broken74]

Thanks totallydevoted, I appreciate the feedback my friend! I didn't even mention it's practically the 4th quarter, two weeks until that starts. I know we aren't supposed to have timers on things, but I think my boundary is going to have to be that if she is not ready to work on the M by the 1yr mark of our separation date, I'm going to have to file myself. I can't take this living in limbo any further, it still affects my sleep, my work performance, and my general outlook (even though I GAL like crazy). And I think I'm detached Ha!!!

You're right about this community, all the kind folks here from talked me down from some pretty high ledges and provided me some great advice. I only wish I had found this site sooner, I would certainly have handled the whole finding about the affair situation different which would have literally saved me thousands of dollars, a record until the charges are dismissed, amongst other things. I would venture to say we would have probably started piecing by now had I have handled the A situation differently and just walked away. To say it has been a learning experience is an understatement. Everything happens for a reason I guess.

Thanks again for the read and feedback much appreciated!