I want to move back into my house and let her move out if it has to be this way. If I do that, it's going to really tick her off. I feel like I have to buckle down and prepare for what is to come and the best place for me to do that is at home.
My plan yesterday was to try to be as separate as possible. This is not the way to do that. But maybe it just won't work unless she actually does as she wants and moves out.
Sandi, I would gladly buy you a beer or a cake or a necklace but probably not a car for a bit of your time, advice, tough love or whatever you have. I know if I don't want to push her away - leave her alone.
But I feel that accepting that she is leaving leaves me with no reason to stay out of the house, pay rent and extra gas, etc. Whatever discomfort that causes her is nothing compared to the pain she has caused me and our kids and she can get over it by moving out.
Which is just pushing her away faster. She probably would never forgive me.
- All for the kids - Me:34, W:35 M:7, T:13 S6, D3 + my D15 from previous marriage July 2011 "I think I need a separation" W filed D September Currently living apart - she has the house, I rent a room
