h stayed at my house last night, on the couch.. he was in town for a visit.. we talked a little this morning, I of course brought up the relationship this morning, he was reseptive, yet nothing really was resolved.. he still says we cant work on us until he has a job back here,
I did ask if he even wanted to come back to this town, and he said that was a silly question, and maybe things would be easier to work on this summer regardless, because he will have more time off.
I dont know how long I am suppose to stay in limbo (his words describing himself) I know he is starting to accept being alone, he really seems ok... so why am I such a wreck??
m 41 h 44 d 17 (prev marriage) d 9 Never give up!!!!!
So I met two very nice people the other night at work. turns out they are also goimg through divorce, and there is a group that meets at a local church. I am very excited to check this out. I think this may just be something good for me....
I still am in the limbo stage, and am hearing from H occasionally, however I do not contact him first unless I have to (ie: regards to D).
I have decided to set it aside, for now, that is what I am comfortable with. No hard and fast decisions, just setting it aside..
Heading into the weekend, have a long day of work today and tomorrow with my two jobs, but it helps to stay busy. Wishing everyone well!
m 41 h 44 d 17 (prev marriage) d 9 Never give up!!!!!
thank you! I really dont know where to post, cant really find anywhere to fit in... I think we are still "piecing" however I cant seem to figure it out...
m 41 h 44 d 17 (prev marriage) d 9 Never give up!!!!!
Don't worry about the category. Personally I don't mind if you continue in the "Newcomer" section. I find it very inspiring to read success stories. God bless you and your family.
