Yeah Cheryl is great I have talked to her twice before. I think I'm in the best spot with my sitch I've been in since it started, and given the positives of my last interaction with W I don't think "doing nothing" for mothers day or our anniversary although would be the by the book move, is going to make any improvements to my sitch.
The thing is albeit they are very small movements on her part, they are positive movements just the same which although I'm happy for is giving me a sense of hope that fuels some anxiety and non-detached thoughts.
Thanks for your post is it encouraging to see other people having success without following the "book" to a T. Good luck!
me 38 W 30 T 3 M in 05/2010 Separated 08/2011 Stephchildren (all hers) SS17, SS12, SD8 I filed 8/27, she countered I filed response 9/5 Anxiously waiting on the judge!
