AFFAIRS- Do you tell the Other Spouse?

[Some Day]

I was the last to find out about my H's affair and I wish someone had told me it was going on. After he came home after 6 months of separation and we started piecing, he restarted the affair. The OW's husband sent me a text message telling me they were back together. Thank God! It was the best thing that happened to us. This is when the OW showed her true neurotic colors and when my H finally came out of the fog.