She also suggested I read the following books, which are talked about on the forum all the time:

-How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It
-Five Love Languages
-Love & Respect

I am also getting coaching from Cheryl. Five Love Languages is great, simple and will help you understand what he needs and what you do. Includes a great chapter on Love is a Choice. Also I just downloaded How To Improve to my iPad and it is fascinating stuff. In first few chapters right now but looking forward to getting into the meat later.

M 53, W 48
T 25, M 18
S 15, D 11
"I'me done!" 6/13/2010
Exit started 8/21/2011 ILYBNILWY
W consults with L 9/2011, no papers filed
Separated 1/16/2012