I think if I sat next to H he would get up and walk away. LOL! And as far as kissing him goodbye, that's no dice. I tried kissing him about a week before he dropped the bomb and he pushed me away. Nice.
H doesn't do much around the house anymore, but when he does do something, I make sure to thank him. He always says you're welcome.
Right now when I am happy around H it seems to make him more miserable and withdrawn.
I need to get another coaching session.
AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012 Two kids, one dog D Final 6/18/14 J marries OW 1/24/15 "No matter where you go, there you are"