Golf Mom,

I agree with everyone here, go through the attorney. Remember they are there to help you strategically plan what's best for you.

If you can manage the house payment alone w/ support and/or re fi....and he's offereing all this to you GO FOR IT!

But most definately get some financial advice.. Im reading Suze Orman's Owning the Power to control your Destiny, women and money.

M=42 XH=44
M=18 T=21
D14 D11
Divorced 4/2012
XH marries OW 6/2014.