When he does contact you, it will be important to be approachable, to be happy, and not to pepper in guilt or other shaming comments. That can be HARD but works wonders if you can pull it off. It makes you approachable versus ominous.
This is REALLY good! I needed this reminder. I don't do so good with the no guilt and no shaming thing. H always looks so defeated whenever I bring up his A.
