I understand what you mean about being the mom and him being the rebellious teen. As I look back on things, I took care of everything for my H, which is what I thought he wanted. Maybe he didn't...but then again, he didn't ever really do his part of the household work, so why would he want additional work, so I just took care of most things.
I miss my old H, too, but we have to realize that they are not there right now. Just keep GALing and making yourself happy, because if/when he comes back around, he'll come home to a happy you!
M: 27 H: 28 T: 8 yrs M: 6 yrs Sep: 2/18/12 (I have no feelings for you!) EA/PA Uncovered: 2/26/12 H introduces OW to his fam: June H moves ALL stuff out: July