Saving my marriage even she file for a divorce

[Use to be]

Yes and hope she can feel and see it

[Drew]

NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

You're still not listening!!

Do it because it's the right thing to do.

Do it to be a better man.

Do it to be a better father.

If you do it only to win your wife back .......

You will fail.

[Use to be]

Hi drew,

I am slow and sometime I don't understand or misunderstood what you guys said.
MrBond advice me all the way till he give up. But where is the part that I am not listening? Will u be able to highlight?

[Use to be]

And you mention do it, maybe you guys can let me know what I did not do and what I do wrongly? Really I am very confuse what to do and what not to do.

[Drew]

Yes and hope she can feel and see it

[MrBond]

So what have you been doing?

[Use to be]

MrBond, I am not feeling well this week so Sunday I did not go and see my boy. I do not want to spread the virus to him. Anyway is mother's day so I asked them to enjoy the day together.

Thanks for your concern

[MrBond]

Are you still here?

[MrBond]

Are you still here?

[twom7]

MRBond,
I admire your standing tough in the face of adversity, and yes alot of us on this site have been down the same road. I have been seperated now for a year, and my wife filed in Jan 12 and I am still working slowly to prevent it...
The gentleman you are posting with needs to get some help, so that he can learn to set his emotions aside and allow time to work in his favor...
I must admit that your story of being apart for four years and now reconciling...wow...that is a long time...
Anyway, this is a good thread...