I'm a WAW who wants back

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Brit...I wish that my W was having your same feelings right now. of course, we're 2 months in and it took you 5 but man, I miss her. I'm wondering if this is how your H was feeling 2 months in? My biggest fear is that since I've been GAL that I will eventually do what your H did and find OW. I do NOT want anyone else other than my W and it makes me ill thinking about being with OW. But, I'm also not going to stop living if she continues to announce this being over, especially if she follows through with D.

As a man...although I'm a bit jaded right now, what you are doing would thrill me...but I would have that hesitation to trust. However...you still need to focus on yourself and stay "detached". You can keep it friendly without addressing R. Now if he brings it up some time in the future that he's thinking about the R and is considering R than I would think then it would be okay to react...but still keep it "friendly" at first to make sure he means it.

I'm a bit in the same boat...if W and I do R...how will I be able to trust her not to leave again when things get a little rough? I hope I get the chance to find out.

Obviously, I'm no expert and I'm here mainly to support you so my 2 cents may not be the correct advise...but you are a WAW and your insight is really helping me to try and figure out what's going on with mine. Hang in there...we will all get through this together...no matter what happens. Stay positive (I know...easier said than done) and continue to focus on yourself...it seems he's noticing at least and to me, it appears he likes it...he's just still confused.