Yikes, and almost forgot I GAL out the wazoo and have little to no free time... The time I struggle the most is at work when sitting at a computer with time to put my thoughts down here. The thing that has me spun up now is the fact that there is evidence (not all mind-reading evidence) that something is going on in her head. Herein lies my problem. I have no expectations but it is in my nature to figure out what is going on which I need to stop. On a side note I neglected to mention that in the process of GAL I have started seeing a remarkable young lady, which complicates matters, although she knows that no divorce has been filed as of yet and as such my "relationship potential" is a scattered minefield. Ironically this type of scenario is one of the things that drew my W toward me the first time, although I am in this situation because it in enjoyable/GAL for me, not to elicit a response from my W.
Thanks Kaffe for bumping the patience thread that is exactly what I need!
me 38 W 30 T 3 M in 05/2010 Separated 08/2011 Stephchildren (all hers) SS17, SS12, SD8 I filed 8/27, she countered I filed response 9/5 Anxiously waiting on the judge!
