Ok, Need some help in figuring out if i am over-reacting.
This morning, the power went out at home due to a big outage across the neighbourhood. I get a call from H after about 30 mins asking what's happened - as the server that runs his business is still at home and he can tell it's not working.
I explain and say I will phone him back as soon as power is restored.
Tell him I am leaving for work in about 30 mins, however.
About 45 mins later - and after I am at work - I get a call from H to tell me that he has BROKEN IN to the house to get the server.
He says he went in through a back window - which I know to have been locked and to have had nails hammered through the frame to prevent forced entry.
I think it's possible that he may have kept a key and gotten in that way.
So he is either lying - in a pretty florid way - or has actually broken into the house that he hasn't lived in for 8 months.
In any case, he has now left the house open to burglars (during a power outage) knowing that I was at work all day.
I was shaking to think he would have done these things - either lied in such a ridiculous way, or actively forced entry and then left the house, and everything in it, vulnerable.
But then I thought maybe he just sees it as 'Oh well, I had to break into my own house because I didn't have a key and it was an emergency.'
In the end, I asked him to come to my work and pick up a key so that he could go back and re-lock the window.
Maybe I am just 'choosing' suffering to get upset over this? I really felt like I was losing it when he told me what he'd done.
Or maybe he really is starting to exhibit increased signs of mental breakdown....
