I am so sorry to hear that you had to go through with this. It is tough stuff. After I told my H it was pretty much over and we divided our belongings, I went dark (been dark for one month) and I haven't seen improvements in reconciling in our M but I do see improvements in my day to day well-being!
Keep your head up...it's not over until it's over!
M: 27 H: 28 T: 8 yrs M: 6 yrs Sep: 2/18/12 (I have no feelings for you!) EA/PA Uncovered: 2/26/12 H introduces OW to his fam: June H moves ALL stuff out: July
