Not sure where to start, Part 3

[wishing, hoping]

Today H was blowing up my phone trying to call. It started at 7:30 and I called him back at 8:00 and straight to VM. It was a crazy day at work so I couldn't pick up when he called. Had to work late so I called him on the way home. First thing he says is "I've been trying to get a hold of you all day." I apologized and said it was a crazy day. Beside that I have been overly emotional all day and I did not want him to know that. He told asked if S had a soccer tournament this weekend and I said no. He said he was thinking of visiting his mother but wanted to make sure I had no plans and I didn't need his help with the kids. I asked when he was going by his mom and he said he would leave Friday night (I am sure to see OW) and come back Saturday. He told me he figured I would want to spend Sunday with the kids and mentioned something like I probably wouldnt want him around anyway since that would be a day for me to spend with the kids. I thought that was odd. I wasnt sure how to take that and didn't want to mind read. Not sure if he is reaching out to me or if that is his way of telling me he does not want to be involved. Thoughts???