The note from your W is very positive. It means that although outwardly you are not seeing any changes, inwardly she is procesing and moving along. Your pace is different from hers. And it makes sense that you are way ahead as she is the WAW who took many many steps backwards in your journey together.
Just keep doing what you are doing, wait for her to catch up. As your sig line says, patience is bitter but the fruit is sweet. And the fruit is definitely not low hanging, it is way at the very top.
Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18 Bomb: 6/26/10 EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ??? 11/5/11 Retrouvaille Finally piecing.... Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go