We were never married. Broke up 8 before the wedding. I call her WAW because that's basically what happened. Same symptoms, but no official papers.

SF

Me: 39 - W: 35
Together: 2 years, no kids
My Affair: 1.5 years
Affair ended: 4/9/14
Affair revealed: 5/19/14
Last Contact: 8/2/14