Wendy, Only you will know what you can and can't put up with. No one can tell you to not move forward and if divorce is what you need to love him from afar, then so be it. You now have to figure out what is best for you. You are the controller of your destiny!
Good luck w/the quilt show!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
