Answering on this thread as to no be out of line. I may have said plainly that I'm filing for divorce, I not waiting for him anymore, I see so plainly that he believes himself to be in love with other womam.
But I realized I will always love him. He is the father of my children. He was everything to me for these past 33 years,
What I realized to edge me toward the Big D is that I don't have to quilt loving him. I just don't need to be married to him and keep letting him treat me the way he does. I truely do need to save myself.
Someone on here says to put your marriage in a box, keep it safe. I'm doing that, my marriage, my love and I will keep it safe. Let him go through what ever and who ever he has to. Maybe some day he will grow up catch up man up.
Meanwhile I'm moving on as best I can, gonna protect me.
Me 57 XH 58 Sons age 32 & 27 M:32 D final 9/12 Bought 10 Acres and Living the Dream!
