The thing that is hard is that.. it's the 2nd time in a row that she has suggested meeting in person about things that can either wait for the grand finale day or like the vm above.. doesn't really need to happen.
Do what you want to do Val. If you want to sit down and engage with her do so (in a neutral setting where you can exit if needs be)
If you don't think its in the best interest for you then politley decline or stay dark.
