I hear ya, kml lol! In any relationship I've had previously sex was pretty dominant and fast. Voldy and I never did it but we were ripping clothes off left, right and center every week! SDA lady and I touch and are very affectionate and have had one heavy make out session but we don't want sex to overpower the relationship. That's what happened previously I found. Once you start doing it everything else becomes secondary which is not great for a R. So, we are going slow and building our caring and trust first...and then I'm gonna put the wood to her lol.
