Good point Barb! She did tell me she was upset about it, but she knows she's gonna have to enforce the boundaries, she doesn't need me to tell her! I did say last night that this is a big change for her and for them, so there may be some adjustment time necessary. But, as Mish said, their history is to take advantage so she needs to be vigilant. As far as sex, I was kind of floored, as was she, that her friend would even say that stuff... she's not even a close friend. And we do talk about having sex (in fact, we discussed it two nights ago) but have decided we don't want to rush it, when the time is right it will happen but it's not a priority. So yeah, that's between her and I, none of her friends business.
