The not so Waste Land

[Harrier]

thanks S.

I guess my question was a little more direct than I let on. I'm talking about specific ideas during reconciliation.

I know they say that the physical part is usually the last to manifest. But how long do you wait it out.

My main worry is that this just a fundamental change in our relationship. Prior to our problems, ML was never a huge issue for us. My biggest problem back then was how to ask for it (don't know why I wasn't direct)

In terms of physical affection (outside of ML) - I was very satisfied with the amount of hand holding, cuddling, hugging, kissing etc.

But now there is NONE of that. NONE.

But I feel like a pr!ck if I were to not be willing to live in a sexless/affection less marriage. especially since everything else is pretty darn good.