Hey TD - immediate posting is so exciting isn't it!

It's funny but you'll find at the most random times you'll realise you haven't been thinking or missing. That happens to me now and catches me out the blue: reading, looking on ebay, at work etc.

high five on the weight loss. I'm at 38 pounds off, two sizes down in jeans, and it's such a great feeling. He's noticed, he's commented, his mom's noticed even said "amazing, fantastic, is it a case of look what you're missing" she was laughing the whole time.

Exercise and eating healthy is a great way for me to get my mind off the situation and feel really great. I even put a little chart on my wall and mark off the pounds each time I lose one. (is that getting a life or the opposite of getting a life haha)

Journal here...I had a private journal and it turned into too much obsession. Here when I write down my thoughts I know people will read them and tell me stop all that analysing or that's the wrong train of thoughts. I've only been on this site a short time and find it a fantastic community!