Been back 3 months. Things progressing achingly slow on the physical intimacy front.
Case in point 1. Sleep in separate rooms since I moved back 2. haven't ML in almost a year 3. No kisses, hugs or other physical displays.
I don't want to be in that type of marriage where there is no affection, but it feels selfish and petty to think that I want to be more physical or I have a big decision to make. plus I love being with my family and my boys.
But I struggle with how to approach it in a way that
1) doesn't feel like I'm rushing her 2) takes into account this is a sensitive issue 3) won't hurt me if she reject things 4) doesn't diminish the other progress we've taken.
We've had these talks before and they usually go bad. because to my W, it feels I'm moving too fast and not focusing on the good things going on - to which there are plenty.
I do feel angry about it at times, then feel bad I feel angry.
ideas?
Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet. --Jean Jacques Rousseau.
