My friends never set me up either. And despite the fact I sat on the boards of several great charities (where you meet really nice people) - I never found Mr Right there (how did you really know if they were married or not?). I never found him in the grocery store either like many people told me. NOPE - I had to step outside of my city and look where there were a load of other single people also looking. And I really had to work at being able to weed them out online before meeting them.