Hey Denton, just wanted to put a point on those time that you might feel real down. I hope that you are just verbalizing that you have "given up on life" but wouldn't act on it. If you have any serious thoughts about that, please talk to a professional about those thoughts.
It wasn't really serious but it was more serious than I felt for a long time, I've snapped out of it now, I don't feel it was due to my sitch completely, rather I think that it was just everything getting on top of me for a short time period.
Originally Posted By: Kaffe Diem
IF your W is MLC, confusion can be quite a big factor. Trying to figure out simple things can be difficult for them. My W recently asked me to figure out summer schedule with the kids (there's some conflicts) because I'm better at scheduling than she is... huh? That from someone who has scheduled our entire 12 years together and puts together conferences for hundreds of participants... Yeah, their brains can be a little... London Fog like...
Yeah, it's one of many, many 'symptoms' that's convinced me it's MLC rather than anything else
Originally Posted By: Kaffe Diem
GAL will be very important for you to make it through this. Some of the more "high functioning" MLCers might go through quicker... the low functioning ones... those who are really stuck on denial... they seem to take a tad longer...
Yeah, I am more focussed on this again now, Saturday night really pushed me away again which is a good thing, I've always thought she still has a slight grip on reality and I'm hoping that her having plenty of space due to our living arrangements will help her come through it quicker.
That from someone who has scheduled our entire 12 years together and puts together conferences for hundreds of participants... Yeah, their brains can be a little... London Fog like... 
