I'm still not at that point of wanting an intimate, monogamous R with someone ATM... although yes, a FWB can seem enticing...
It sure does sound like you are doing the "right" things in getting yourself out there.
Here's something you might try... Make a list of all the single guys you know. Start scheduling dates with them. It does not matter if they are too old... or too young... or too crazy... or too... whatever... just start going on dates (1 on 1 or doubles)...
You could also enlist your friends to set you up on blind dates... if they are really your friends, why would they not...? lol...
And... I'm just going to say again... if you aren't getting any bites... it could be one of two possibilities... either you are coming across as needy and desperate... or you are coming across as aloof or disinterested...
One thing I've noticed with extroverts and "promoter" types... they often don't stand still long enough to be "caught"...
