In some ways, GM, it is a relief. No more limbo. No more wondering if he'll go through with it. I remember that day for me as well, and it was a relief. I almost felt guilty about that at the time. I don't any longer. I see it for what it is: another day. A day I didn't have to wonder any longer. Sadly for me it was a long time before I really saw that there would be more "what the heck is she doing" moments But even that is ok since I don't wonder or live in limbo. That was my choice and one I could have made earlier. Except that wouldn't be true to my values if I had done that prior. I suspect you are similar in that regard.
Keep your perspective!
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
But even that is ok since I don't wonder or live in limbo. That was my choice and one I could have made earlier. Except that wouldn't be true to my values if I had done that prior. I suspect you are similar in that regard. 
