Welp.. my apartment is clean. My need to want to move out has subsided slightly. I did look at some apartments today. None that struck my fancy. I'll continue to be patient.
I also didn't send w my April health insurance payment. I kept my boundary (not sending any more checks until she cashes the the previous month). She immediately cashed my March payment with my April car insurance payment so I'm glad my boundary is "working".
Man boundaries are so hard.
Anyway... while looking at the apartment I receive a phone call from her. I let it go straight to VM as I do all of her calls.
It was very pleasant.
----- "Hi Val, it's w. I am wondering if we can set up a time where we can just sit down and talk and figure out where we are... and um.. kinda get on the same page.
Give me a call so we can talk about that... and I look forward to hearing from you. I'll talk to you soon..Hope you are having a good day. ------ It makes sense to me that she would call. After all that has been her style - email, call, email..
.. and it's been almost 2 wks and I still haven't gotten back to her about the accountant.
The thing that is hard is that.. it's the 2nd time in a row that she has suggested meeting in person about things that can either wait for the grand finale day or like the vm above.. doesn't really need to happen.
I try not to mind read... but I'm kinda stumped here....
M(f): 40 D'ed: 8/12
Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.
