I agree with you Brit that it is for me, because in the end I only see a small amount of hope for reconciling our marriage. I know I'll be happy when all is said and done...no matter which path I am on, but I guess I'm just still in disbelief that any of this happened. We were the 'it' couple for 8 years...I just need to get that out of my head!
As for GAL activities, I have started working out more frequently and began tanning (makes me feel better about myself). I have also reconnected with old friends and try to keep my weekends busy with family and friends. I am busy with work a lot so I don't have much spare time during the week.
I'm glad to hear you are GALing. It sounds like you are doing well!
1 month of no contact...I can't even believe it! I just don't understand how disposable and replaceable I have become to my H. I need to stop that thinking!!!
M: 27 H: 28 T: 8 yrs M: 6 yrs Sep: 2/18/12 (I have no feelings for you!) EA/PA Uncovered: 2/26/12 H introduces OW to his fam: June H moves ALL stuff out: July