Hi, I believe I am very fortunate ( considering others sitchs) that the real heavy stuff has only been going on for about 6-9 months although things have been tough for a couple of years it felt more like a phase that marriages go through and we were both so busy working and bringing up 3 young kids that in a way it was hardly noticed and I guess I sub consciously put up barriers to a lot of the crap. Like I said, compared to some sitchs on here it's like a walk in the park and it's always felt like she has held onto reality just a little the whole time and not gone completely off the rails like some others have.
