Yeah... I've realized he's gonna be in Crazytown for a looong time, if not forever. The funny thing is I don't even know why he doesn't talk to his father, gee deep rooted issues that will get pushed down with everything else he is refusing to deal with I guess.... Of course his mommy can do wrong LMAO, and he talks to all of his siblings and friends.... well co-workers and shooting buddies, he doesn't have really many friends.
So, I did something to piss him off.... I knew it would, didn't care though.... he needs a dose of reality.... so he can throw a baby tantrum if he wants, I work with kids, I can deal. LOL His dad texted me today and finally told me what is going on with him, he said kidney problems, heart problems, etc, etc, and he just wants it all to be over. (I'm hoping I don't have to call a hotline for him). I told him not to give up. He said he misses his family including me, and he wants the pain to stop. He went on to say he's always thought of me as a daughter and thought I was the best thing to ever happen to his son...... so when I got home I had H read what he had texted me because he had asked what was wrong with him. H said I don't need to include him in our conversations, I said I was just showing you because you asked what all was wrong with him. H said he shouldn't have done that and to him his dad died a long time ago. I said that is your choice and I am sorry you feel that way, and I went back to "my" room. A few minutes later he came back to tell me there is pizza in the oven if I wanted any and he has passed the message along to his siblings. I thanked him for giving them the message and went back to what I was doing.
As far as the financial thing, now I'm all ticked off at myself for not thinking about making copies before. Is that essential??? It could be nearly impossible now..... and then there is the stuff he cashed out already and I don't have any of the cash out info from those because I'm sure he threw them away somewhere I wouldn't find them.
Also, interesting to note, as I type this I noticed his fathers phone numbers are not laying here next to the computer anymore...... hmmm..... perhaps he is sprouting a brain (yeah right).... or maybe one of his siblings is(again, yeah right).... I suppose anything is possible.
