((BM)) I have been following your thread since I joined. Last week when you got served I felt slapped in the face for you. I was actually telling my IC about it this morning, when that happened to you after all the sh&t you have put up with it actually really helped my detach for my WAH. I know my H hasn't filed yet, so I will get emotional again, but YOU have helped ME detach. It is a relief. I can see so clearly what a victim my H is being, and I know I don't want it anymore. If he does decide he wants to come back, he has to work for it. I don't want my kids to see me trying to "earn" his love anymore. Our H have very similar scripts, and they want to deny any responsibility. Once they are away from us, they will still be stuck with their unhappiness and resentment. I know this is hard for all of us, that we all have our ups and downs, but I want you to know that you are a strong woman and I respect you. Hoping your day gets better. Fighting
M 37, H 37 M 10, T 12 S 4 D 2 3/14/12 ILYBNILWY 4/2/12 H consults a L, files nothing 4/26/12 H moves to his new place
