Thanks 2tp, My only boundary at this point is that I wont be in a relationship (if you can even call it that anymore) with someone that has any kind of OP in their life. I don't even really plan to bring up the OP unless she really wants to get into the reasons why I'm doing this.
Basically, all I'm there to say is what Busto stated above: - I'm not ok with this situation any more, and I need to move on - I need to be in a R with someone who also wants to be in a R with me. It doesn't always have to be a perfect R, but it has to be one where we both feel safe, and know that each is as committed to the M as the other. I don't feel either of those things, and haven't for a long time.
I really don't know how it's going to go. I don't know what her reaction will be. Trying to prepare for anything, but if the last several months have indicated, she'll probably be sad and say that she's not ready to let go, but at the same time, she'll do nothing to convince me otherwise. That is no longer good enough for me. Time to get a foothold back in this part of my life.
M:28 | W:28 | T:4.5 | M:2.5 | No Children EA1 Uncovered: Jun 2011 EA2 Uncovered: 2011-09-29 S: 2011-09-29 I'm moving on: 2012-05-08 My story: http://bit.ly/K3ttPM