To chime in here as well, OMW... when I first read your post, I thought "good, if the two of you can be pleasant and amicable in D, that is fantastic..."
I do suspect you will say that you know this, but I did want to point out that one cannot escape "the work" and everything that goes along with it, simply by filing... D or not, amicable or not... it's probably not "over" for a while, yet...