Fair enough, alamo. You know that you are safe to vent here, even if we do pass out the 2x4s...
Awesome on your days "sober"! When we can control our addictions, we find the strength and courage to do most anything...
I do understand that you have not shown your W that she is pushing your buttons. Like the addiction, it's still a matter of continuing to do so. Because lets say that the two of you magically R. She'd still test you by pushing your buttons, 5 years and 20 years from now...